It took me about 3 months to get comfortable in my car whereas it normally only takes about 1 month for me in a new car.
What I eventually figured out by getting out of the car and kneeling down right next to the seat and then adjusting it and closely watching the seat movement as I made different adjustments was that the seat height adjuster also moves you incrementally closer to the steering wheel as you raise the height. So if you get the fore/aft distance right and then adjust the height after that it changes the fore/aft distance slightly, just enough to throw you off as you think the fore/aft is set right and then as you drive it feels off because the height has changed this distance. I've never seen this before but I think this may be the reason some people find it hard to get comfortable in these seats.
Once you are aware of this behaviour it makes it easier to adjust accordingly. In a roundabout way this is actually a benefit as it allows you to make smaller fore/aft adjustments by using the height adjuster, raise it one or two settings to move closer and lower to move further away without having to use the seat slider adjustment.
I am aware. It's due to the linkage in the seats for the adjustments. Rake of the seat back does the same.
For these reasons I adjust in this order:
- Seat height
- Seat back rake
- Seat position fore / aft
- Steering column (for arms / reach)
Of course there's always little tweaks here and there in the process, but that's the main order I aim for.
And as a follow up I have been MUCH more comfortable in the car since my last post about seemingly finding my sweet spot. I haven't touched it since and discomfort / lower body pain on a daily basis is gone.
No multi-hr drives to really test it since then, but I've been in the car for 3+ hrs in a day and have been good.