okay okay I was having a bad morning and with messages it all depends on your attitude when you read a message. That doesnt make much sense.
Anyway my point is most of you want to be moderators ( and I get that we need that) Then lead by example and be kind to those who just dont know!! We are all "friends" here. I know that if I mistakenly post something that could be solved by a monkey I would rather not be criticised or humiliated publicly but rather send a pm or email saying ... check your bleep'n' manual!!! Just saying! And I am very sorry if I have done this already!
As far as the "friend" thing goes sorry guys its not a " friends with benefits" situation. And I am sure most of you have no problem as far as the getting laid thing goes.